With a simple search on the Internet you will find numerous teenage stories from teenagers all over the world. I’ve read some in the thing that comes from all stories id the fact that they should have waited for this moment, but they don’t say it like a regret. All the teenage mothers consider the pregnancy and the motherhood extremely hard and they are very thankful to the persons that help them, parents, brothers, sisters, parents in law, friends, grandparents, etc. Nobody has the right to judge nobody.
Some parents are disappointed when they find out that their teenage daughters are pregnant, other are angry, others are confused, others kick them out of the house, others advise their daughters to make an abortion and other support their daughters no matter what and help them to raise the baby in proper conditions. Many of the teenagers, boys or men who get the teenage girls pregnant run from responsibility and ask the girls to make an abortion or say that this is not their problems. In this world there are probably millions of teenage pregnancy stories. There are cases when pregnant teenage girls lose the support of their boyfriend and the support of the parents and decide to make an abortion. There are cases when pregnant teenage girls lose the support of the boyfriend and are supported by the parents who help them to raise the baby.
And there are teenage pregnancy stories with happy end when the teenage couple sticks together and raise their baby together. I don’t think it’s easy for any girl to find out that she is pregnant at the age of 15, or 16, or 17, or 18 years. Now, there are cases of little girls or 13-14 years who get pregnant, a child giving birth to another child. Let’s hope that those cases are only exceptional cases, because this is beyond normal.
But, let’s return to our initial subject. The teenage girls who find out that they are pregnant are forced to take a very hard decision that will influence their future. They cannot raise a baby on their one, they will have to drop school, they will have to get a full time job to be able to raise the baby, they will have to give up to their old activities and to dedicate themselves to taking care of the baby, they will have to deal with all the responsibilities that involves the parenthood and many, many other issues.
There are other cases when teenage girls decide to have the baby and then give him/ her for adoption. The teenage girls who decide to keep their babies will face a very difficult period that will certainly make them more mature and responsible. But not all the teenagers have the maturity to think about all the aspects that having a baby at a young age involves and they give birth to the baby and leave him/ her with their parents or simply abandon their babies with no remorse.
Every period of the life has to be lived all the things that it involves: the children should play and have no worry in the world, the teenagers should study, party and start to help their parents, the young adults should work, have fun, start a family, have children, buy a house, the adults should take best care of their families, work, travel, have fun and the elder persons should enjoy their family and what they have accomplished. We should not hurry and enjoy every period of our life with the advantages and disadvantages that it involves.