Teenagers have always had a mind of their own. Anyway you want to put it, teenagers will eventually do whatever they want to. Forbidding them to do something, will only make it worst. Teenagers want to experience, want to learn from their own mistakes. Parents have a hard time, when it comes to teen years. Why? Because it's the period when they start to rebel. Sex is probably the most exciting and desired thing they want to do. Many parents do not talk with their children about sex, about contraceptive methods, they do not give them any advices and so, teenagers are left to take their own decisions. Sometimes is better to let your kid run wild and choose for himself, but they need guidance, not control.
Teens especially teen girls are not yet experienced, they do not know what to do when it comes to boys, and they have a crush each week. When you are young it seems that everything is possible, you don't care about what happens next , you just live for the thrill of the moment. A common concern nowadays, especially in America, is
Teen Pregnancy. Many young girl remain pregnant and half of them decide to keep the baby. A baby means responsibility , a family who can take care of him, means financial status etc. a young woman cannot give all this to a baby. Those that choose to keep the baby, are left with no other choice than quit school and take a job or stay home and take care of the baby. Parents are the ones who have to carry all the difficulties .
Teen Pregnancy is a mistake, because these girls ruin their hole future. Having a baby at an early age, inevitably matures you and changes your life perspectives. Teen Pregnancy is cause by lack of experience, no protection, alcohol, parties etc. many young girls have sex just out of curiosity or because everyone else has, and it's a shame to be the last virgin. In many groups of teenagers, sex is treated as a game, a fun thing. Young boys do not have the necessary experience to know how things work, but they pretend they do. School sex education, is not paying any results. People are still prudes in what regards the sex topic, and many of the sex ed classes, are general and do not give specific details. Children are encouraged to be abstinent until they find someone that is worth it. Well, it's not how it works today.
Love hasn't been for long, a motif for sex. Nowadays, women have casual sex and confess it because they want to. Casual sex is a more quicker way to solve your needs and so, many prefer one night stands in exchange of a steady relationship. This new generation, seems to have taken things too fast. With all the contraceptive methods, people are still not taking care of their health and they do not protect themselves. If grown up women remain pregnant without wanting, what is there left to say about teenage girls, who can't even say right what sex means. The real pleasures of sex are felt and known after a certain age, dictated by experience.