A miscarriage or spontaneous abortion is the medical term used to define the loss of an embryo or fetus before the 20th pregnancy week. The majority of the miscarriages occur during the first 14 pregnancy weeks of the first pregnancy trimester. The miscarriage appears in a high proportion of 1 miscarriage at 5 pregnancies. In the Unites States of America the number of pregnancy loss is of approximately 2 million cases each year from 6 million pregnancy cases. The majority of miscarriages are caused by a genetic abnormality of the fetus.
The miscarriage represents for every couple a traumatic experience, that may make it difficult for the couple to try to conceive a baby again. The decision of conceiving a child after a experience of this kind is very though for the couple, sometimes may seem impossible and even undesirable for both woman and man of the couple, not only for the woman. There are times when couples are more interested of conceiving as soon as possible. Sometimes couples hesitate into taking a decision, they don’t know what they want, for a moment they want to get pregnant and the next minute they think that this thing is impossible. This decision should be taken by the both couple partners, after they discuss about their feelings and wishes.
If you have taken the decision of conceiving a baby, you should take into consideration the fallowing:
-realize the fact that every pregnancy is unique;
- inform yourself about the cause of your miscarriage and what are the risks of the miscarriage to repeat again;
-making different medical analyses;
-be honest with yourself and take this step only if you are fully prepared for doing this thing.
Many couples want to know when is the best moment for trying again of conceiving a baby. The right moment of having another pregnancy after a miscarriage is after you healed both physically and emotionally. When taking the decision of a pregnancy after miscarriage, you should also take into consideration other factors, such as: the way that your relationship with your partner develops, personal or family problems, your age, your health, the health care provider’s advice regarding this situation, etc. Your health care provider may help you to take a right decision while taking into consideration your state of health and may provide you books and resources that will help you to take a documented decision.
After experiencing a miscarriage you will feel different emotions, like: depression, anger, frustration, anxiety, sadness, weakness and sometimes blame. You may experience those feelings for a long period of time, this may cause a pain, sadness and frustration even years after, when you remember this experience.
The physical health of the women who experienced a miscarriage plays a very important role in the decision that the women will take about having another pregnancy after miscarriage. The type of miscarriage that the women experienced influences her physical readiness. The things that may help you having a better health after the miscarriage is a healthy diet, a physical exercises program, not smoking, not drinking alcohol and having an appropriate time for rest.
It is very important when you take the decision of having another pregnancy after miscarriage to be prepared physically and emotionally, to take into consideration the health care provider’s advice, to be 100% sure of the decision that you made and to want this baby from all your heart. Probably if you wnat something from the bottom of your heart and you are optimstic, God will help you and furfill your wish.
Remember, take into consideration the doctor's advice, also.